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The Ups and Downs of Contests
Is it ups and downs both? My opinion is, it's mostly ups, although there can be a down side to anyting and everything.
One of the perks of being an RWA member was getting the monthly "newsletter", the RWR (Romance Writers Report) because it contained a listing of all the contests being held by RWA chapters. I never reached the pinnacle of being a Contest Queen, meaning entering contest after contest, but I did more than my fair share. It paid off. Well, eventually. :)
There's a contest for just about anything remotely connected to romance writing. First chapters, opening hooks, best kiss, best synopsis, and the list goes on. A writer could have one or two manuscripts and enter them in contests for several years.
The big question is: Why enter a contest?
There are several answers.
1. It's a great way to learn about deadlines. Your entry must arrive on or before a certain date. Miss it, and you just wasted $20 or more, plus postage. Not the best use of contests or money!
2. Biting your nails while waiting for the finalists list is a great way to ruin a manicure.
3. It's good practice for learning to format correctly. If it's a synopsis contest or the entry must include a synopsis, usually short and no matter if it's being judged or not, you learn how to do one by doing.
4. You trust your critique partners, but you'd like to have a completely unbiased opinion on your work. Let's face it. Critique partners are the best, but after a while, they can become enamored with your story and/or your writing. Getting another opinion (or 3!) can make you feel better or show you that you still have some work to do. The word to remember is FEEDBACK. (More on this later.)
5. If you're lucky enough to final in a contest where the final judge is an editor for the line (if category romance) or publisher you're targeting, opportunity can come knocking. There's nothing sweeter than to have a final judge editor request a partial or full manuscript, no matter whether the book sells or doesn't sell. Either way, you know you're on the right track, and you'll usually get some great feedback from the editor.
6. Some contests, like the Golden Heart, require that the manuscript be complete. This is a fantastic opportunity for a writer to finish the book!
I've never counted how many contests I've entered. Maybe more than 20, but defiitely less than 50. I was a finalist in 8 of them with 5 different books. 4 of those books sold, mostly later, and one, The Maggie, led directly to my first sale. The one that hasn't sold needs massive changes, because that was 13 years ago and guidelines have changed. Besides, I've learned a million things since then.
When it comes to feedback, it can be invaluable. My critique partner was a Contest Queen and the one who insisted I enter my first contest. She told me that if one judge said one thing, but the two others (usually there are 3) said the opposite or didn't mention it, not to worry about it. If two judges pointed out the same problem, take a closer look at it and revise if you feel it needs it. If three judges mention the same thing and find it to be a problem, it's time to really do some work. I discovered doing what she told me was the right thing to do. I'll admit that with some judges' comments, I completely ignored them. With others, I took them to heart.
For instance, one judge once told me the premise of my story (a guy and girl win tickets at a baseball game for a trip to somewhere, but must leave within only a few hours with only 1 packed suitcase.) She said that wouldn't happen. She should have attended a Wrangler's game, because that was prize in one of their drawings each game for a while.
Then there was a comment made by author Stella Cameron on one of my entries. She marked a spot that said "This book needs to start here!" I rewrote the opening, and decided she was right, but it was several years before I submitted that manuscript. That book with the changed beginning will be a Harlequin American Romance in January next year. (Bachelor Cowboy) The moral of that? Weigh the judges' comments before completely rewriting your book. Some are good, some aren't.
Entering contests can get expensive, so do your homework. Enter one that requires what and where your writing is. Those tried and true contests that have been around for several years can be some of the best out there to enter. If you're looking for an editor to see your work, check out who the final judges will be and enter those that will help you reach that goal.
One rule of my own making that I adhered to was to have completed manuscript before I entered that story in a contest. There was only one time that I didn't, but I wrote the last three chapters while waiting to hear on the outcome. That doesn't mean everyone must do the same, but it was an excellent way to get me to finish the book!
While you're waiting to hear on one contest or many, keep writing. Don't continue to submit the same one or two entries over and over. You need fresh "stuff". Each time you write something, you'll find yourself writing better. Entering contests will probably prove that, over time.
So don't be shy. Take the leap and give contesting a try! It could someday lead to the sale of your first book. In the meantime, it definitely can't hurt. And contest entry fees, plus the postage to send and postage for return of your score sheets and entry are deductible on your taxes. ;)
Record Keeping and Tax Deductions for Writers
Unpublished vs. Published. If you’re as yet unpublished and don’t think you need to consider record keeping and tax deductions yet, think again. The IRS does state that you can claim a tax loss for business expenses even if you haven’t published anything yet.
Hobby vs. Business: Must show a profit after 3-5 years. Again, this is incorrect. The IRS states “as long as you can prove you are actively pursuing a career in writing” and as long as your expenses are considered “necessary business expenses” they are deductible.
Schedule C Sole Proprietor vs. S-Corporation. This can be a complicated decision once you are at the point of making serious income as a writer. Most writers only need to add the Schedule C form to your individual tax return, which lets you show both income and expenses for your writing business and helps lessen your tax burden.
Proving Pursuit of a Writing Career. Even if you are not published, you can prove your determination to be taken seriously as a writer by sending and keeping copies of letters to agents, editors, or publishers. If you submit or query by email, keep copies of all emails involved, including responses. If you aren’t ready to submit or query on a particular work yet, send letters to prospective publishers requesting submission guidelines and keep copies for your records.
Necessary Business Expenses. The following are expenses to consider for tax deductions, remembering to keep all receipts and any logs:
•Postage, including return postage on your SASE, and shipping fees for books sent to wholesalers, retailers, readers, reviewers, etc.
•Writing-related books such as market guides, how-to books, subscriptions to writing magazines, and necessary reference books
•Office supplies such as paper, ink, envelopes, pens, highlighters, index cards, story board materials, files, blank CDs, sticky notes, thumb drives, card readers, external hard drives, etc.
•Marketing materials such as business cards, bookmarks, flyers, posters, postcards, brochures, press kits, press releases, etc.
•Long distance phone calls related to your writing, such as to a critique partner, agent, editor, etc.
•Internet service fees, if you use the Internet to develop your craft and/or to promote yourself and your work
•Writers group membership dues, gas mileage to meetings or conferences, meals that are related to the meeting
•Writers conference fees, hotel expenses, gas mileage and meals (these are deductible even for unpublished writers)
•Website set-up fees, monthly or annual fees for hosting, domain registration fees, any maintenance done by someone else
•Your published works donated to libraries or given away for promotional purposes (sent to reviewers, offered in contests, donated for fund raisers, etc.) may be deducted at retail value.
•Dry cleaning of clothes for speaking engagements, book signings or other author appearances
•Agent fees and commissions
•Books purchased by self-published and e-published authors to have for resale
•Other necessary business items such as a personal computer, a laptop, desk, filing cabinet, scanner, printer may be deducted based on a portion of the costs between business and personal use
•Office rental space for your writing business (such as renting a cubicle in Office This)
Mileage Logs. The IRS requires that good records be kept of all business mileage. A simple auto mileage log book can be purchased at any office supply store.
Methods to Keep Track of Business Financial Records. You can keep track of your income and expenses in a notebook, on a spreadsheet, or in a checkbook-style program like Quicken. I’m a spreadsheet nut normally, but I recommend using Quicken. At the end of the year you can print out some nice, simple reports that will make your tax preparation work easier.
For more information visit the IRS website at www.irs.gov. You also might want to get copies of publications #334 Tax Guide for Small Businesses and Individuals who use Schedule C or C-EZ and #535 Business Expense (which tells you what you can and cannot deduct), and #552 Record Keeping for Individuals.
Conferences: the Mirror of Stark Reality
Nifty title. Decided to keep it. It is near meaningless. Conferences aren’t. They are very important no matter where you are in your writer’s path.
I went to my first writer’s conference in 2004 in
Oh, I planned for this conference. Every detail was studied in advance. I was going to soak up as much information as I could on this new thing—the writing and publishing world. How did other writers live with the other worlds in their heads? What was a POV? A Golden Heart winner? I even planned how to escape up into the pines for a while to breathe free of the crowd. My laptop was with me to fill in the hours after the main events and before I lay my head to finally sleep. I scanned every word on networking does and don’ts and decided to don’t. I read up on how to communicate with people in meaningful conversations. I know, not everyone has to do that, but I wanted to be my shiny best.
My special hair fixin’s were ready. My bags were packed. I climbed into the car and took off. My car broke down. But it didn’t matter. I’d left a day early. My intention was to relax, have a good time, absorb what I could and finally meet another writer—maybe lots of them. I had no illusions. I’m not that interesting. I was there to learn and observe.
Here’s what I discovered. I’ve never been with a greater bunch of people in my life. I was welcomed at every turn. People were so busy networking they thrust themselves forward at every opportunity and asked me if I’d like to do all manner of things. They asked what I wrote, I told them. I ventured a few questions and a couple of kind souls shook their heads in dismay and escorted me to a workshop that they said I needed. And later they checked up on me to see how it had gone. I found in one workshop that if you don’t put writing first in your life, right after your children, that you’re not likely to get enough written to be an author of importance—dusting, cleaning and other things are no longer necessities. I attended every workshop that I could fit into.
I learned that others were fearful, and that a kind word and offer of support to a new Golden Heart winner got me invited to the Golden Heart party with her and her daughter—an invitation I didn’t inveigle. An experience I wouldn’t want to trade. A memory I treasure.
I found out that offering help in something like getting the book signing room ready meant that, as in my experience, volunteers were adequate but supplies were lacking. I’d come prepared and brought supplies. We all used them happily and were able to be done in good time. No one will remember that as a good time probably but me. Later I sat between two wonderful people at that book signing and found that helping out can mean putting a badge back together by sewing it. And the author thought that was a skill? She teaches writing.
I saw acts of perseverance. One poor attendee had slipped getting off the plane and after a trip to the emergency room, wheeled herself around the conference. I witnessed an act of sincere aching generosity. One writer had been told by her husband just before she left for the conference that her writing was a money drain, bring home a contract or quit. She had a trace of damp eyes as we all gathered in one of the lunch lines. Not too civilized, I asked her how things were going. (A civilized person would have given her space and ignored her, not being intrusive). She’d been assigned an appointment with an editor that did not suit her story. Another person in line at lunch that day, offered to give up her editor spot for her. Insisting she take it when she demurred. I encouraged her to take it. I hope she did. Both giver and recipient were blessed that day, whether they did the switch or not, for their hearts were full and I was blessed to observe that generous act.
I saw two women coming down the escalator, the one behind shooting excited fingers at the person just in front of her. There was only the three of us in that golden moment of time. The excited one mouthed something. I didn’t know who the woman in front was or why the woman behind her was so excited. The woman in front with short hair had no idea anything was going on behind her. I gave a smile and a thumbs up sign in the spirit of the moment and both women smiled, the woman in front a small curve, the one behind a beam. Neither saw each other’s face. I found out who
Another time, I was sitting in a corner with coffee and saw a well-selling team totally miss some important appointments and their agent nearly pulling out her hair. They later came waltzing in, totally oblivious to their error and entirely dressed wrongly for being seen by anyone with a camera. Three things learned. Even the famous can goof up and after you get famous make sure you’re camera ready if your agent has a date with you to meet people. Embarrassing your agent is not a smooth business move.
I was hijacked in elevators and hallways to go to meals, both inside and out of the
My WARA members finally found me. Bless them all. They made sure I was ok and could find them if I needed them. I treasure those moments too. I left during the business meeting. There was some heat in RWA that year, and I remember that I didn’t have an opinion so that’s the time I escaped up 6th avenue and went to the piney woods in the mountains. I was gone all afternoon and when I came back was refreshed and ready for more.
My laptop was a casualty. It turns out that when shut down and in their case you still can’t treat them like luggage and toss them around. I talked myself hoarse and didn’t fully recover my voice for at least a week. But this is what I learned (besides craft things). I’ve never felt more at home with a group of people. Conferences are important, soul-saving important. Writers NEED to meet other writers. I feel so strongly about it that every year since I’ve donated to a writer’s group that gives money so that others can attend conference. I’ve been anonymous until this year. I haven’t been able to afford the time, nor the full expense to go, but I’ve helped others to go—that’s how strongly I feel it is necessary. Understanding. That is worth far more than anything else is. Support is wonderful. Families and friends can do that, but Understanding and finding understanding is indescribably comforting. That comfort sends tendrils down deep. My memories of that conference and the feeling of connection stay close to me like a worry stone in my pocket. There if I need it. I am not alone. Others of my kind are out there. I didn’t know I was a ‘kind’ until that conference.
So, what do you do for a conference? Prepare, relax, don’t force it, be ready with a helping hand, (supplies, tape, scissors, etc.) a smile, a pen, paper, a few cards to exchange, and a ready ear. Don’t worry over the clothing issue too much. Except the New York Professional crowd who appear to favor consistent black, you could meet people better dressed at a funeral or church. I expect it may be different depending upon the city, but I’ll bet not much. Those workshop rooms are generally well air-conditioned. Bring a sweater. Drink a lot of water. Don’t pitch a book to anyone in a place you wouldn’t accept a date in—the bathroom comes to mind. Above all, don’t worry. They’ll like you because they’re like you.
Should I Join a Writers' Group?

Ages ago when I started writing my first book I was very alone in the process. My only source of information was from the library. Fortunately no one has to be in that position these days. Now we are overloaded with sources of information. If you are serious about writing should you consider joining a writer’s group? My response is a resounding “YES!” These are the reasons why:
1. Education You can read about writing and publishing in books and on line but to truly learn you need to practice and discuss. Think of it as not having to reinvent the wheel. If you are just beginning to write you can pick up all sorts of information that will make you a more productive writer, a better writer. If you are experienced the same is true as we all either continue to learn or grow stagnant. The added benefit for the experienced writer is getting to share what they have learned. No matter where you are on the spectrum from beginning to published you benefit from discussing writing, publishing, and life; from presentations on the same; from writing exercises done in a supportive group.
2. Support An active, producing writer runs into roadblocks. Speaking about them with others eases the way through or around them. If you receive a rejection, your spirit is lifted by those who have also gotten them and by those who know they probably will get them. Support, encouragement and hope are invaluable on a long rocky road. Fellow writers who experience all that you do offer both. They balance the emotional seesaw we all experience in our writing careers and in our lives. They’ll commiserate with your rejections and there is nothing better than celebrating writing success with fellow writers.
3. Inspiration The sharing of experiences by the published authors in a group can be an inspiration for all. Their success shows it is possible that we too can be published. Also the members of a group inspire by helping--perhaps by brainstorming through a plotting problem, by giving “how to” information, by being there through any problem for that matter. That thought leads me to--
4. Friendship When I first joined WARA I had never had much of a chance to visit with other writers. Though I tend to be reserved and quiet I found that the members reaching out to me helped me reach out to them and others. It broadened not just my writing but my life. I’ve made several friends in WARA that I value greatly. My writing has been enriched. I have learned much. I have been blessed in no longer being alone.
5. Critical Support I was hard pressed to come up with a name for this one. I was thinking of the various critique groups within WARA. Those members who meet in small groups outside of our regular meeting to share what they write and offer constructive criticism to one another. Critique groups are not for everyone just as every critique group is not. But they are invaluable when you find the right one for you. It’s like having a sponsor and being one at the same time.
6. Agent and Market Information Fellow writers are a great source on current market trends and agents. If they don’t know, they can show you how to access that information on the Internet. Better yet, you can learn about what problems exist in dealing with agents and publishers and how to avoid them.
Should you join a writing organization? Do you want a safe, friendly environment to spread your writing wings? Do you want encouragement and support in your writing failures and successes? Do want to have recourse to a deep well of information; a place to discuss whatever is going on with your writing? If you do there is a writing organization waiting for you to join. Check out those in your area and find the right fit. I’m glad I did. I’ve listed a few writing groups in Kansas as a starting point. If you know of more in or near the Wichita area let us know. If you know of more reasons to join a writers group please comment on that too!
Wichita Area Romance Authors http://www.warawriters.com
Kansas Writers Association http://www.kwawriters.com/index.html
Kansas Authors Club http://skyways.lib.ks.us/orgs/kac/index.html
Kansas City Writers http://www.kansascitywriters.com/index.htm
A DAY IN THE LIFE
5:30am. Yes, I realize that’s the crack of dawn, but I’m a morning person and no matter how hard I try to break the habit, I yam what I yam. I hit the treadmill running (grin) and then shower before reading the paper and kissing hubby goodbye and good luck as he joins the rest of the rats in the daily race. He’s not really a rat—not usually anyway.
7:00am. Tomato juice or Diet Dr. Pepper depending on what my calendar looks like for the day. Sometimes you just gotta have a jolt and since I’m not a Folger’s girl, I get my caffeine fix from a 12oz. can. And Cheerios. (I know Wheaties would be the logical choice for endurance, but Cheerios are my thing and since I doubt I’ll be gracing the covers of either box—ever—does it really matter?) Although, for around 15 bucks, at the Mall of America, you can get your smiling face on a box of Wheaties. I know, because my daughter did this and even though I still have the box, I’m not sure what 7 year-old wheat flakes might taste like. I find my missing glasses and call the folks. We make plans to hit the casino soon. I get dressed, start a load of laundry, do the dishes, tidy the living room and make the bed.
7:45am. Ahhhh. Finally time to get down to some real work.
8:00am. Daughter calls and I talk to her while playing a game on the computer, (best to get the game playing out of the way at the beginning of my day) before hanging up, I tell her I love her and miss her very much.
8:30am. Time to get busy. No, really this time I mean it. I check both of my emails, facebook, and checking account to make sure no one snuck in and sucked it dry. Answer a few emails and now I’m ready. I broke-up with my agent(long, story) so I’m in the process of obtaining a new one. That means research. My first stop on the web (well other than emails, facebook and my bank) is RWA and I make a list. I cross-check it with the list I made at the national conference and decide which agents I want to send my manuscript to and what each one wants to receive. I’m the kind of person who likes to see things in black and white so I make a chart and fill in the blanks with the who’s, what’s, where’s. Most want a dynamite query, synopsis, and 3 chapters. Check. I have all that except for the dynamite query. I need to punch it up a bit. I decide to work on that while I print out the partials.
10:00am. Off to Walmart to get printer ink. And porkchops, milk, lettuce, a banana and since I realized I’d left home without putting on any make-up, I pick up the big bag of M & M’s. The way things are going I’m gonna need it.
11:30am. Printer is finally going like gangbusters so after filing the ink receipt in the tax folder, I check my email and then research editors I might like to work with—or rather who is willing to consider the type of book I write. I make another list and chart. After a bite of lunch with my sons, I consider a nap, but decide I can’t give in to temptation.
12:00pm. I open my current WIP and read over what I wrote yesterday and practically wear my finger out on the delete button. Sometimes it’s like that, sometimes it’s not. I forge through and actually get some pretty decent stuff written. Of course, only time will tell. The main thing is to get something—anything—written. It’s much easier to clean up the garbage than to write something new.
4:00pm. I switch gears and get the envelopes ready to mail to the agents and editors. I know without an agent my submissions will be added to the slush pile, but at least I know I’m putting forth the effort. Will I get rejections? Without a doubt. Will they hurt? Absolutely, but will I give up? Never. The one given in this business is that you will never be published if you never send anything out.
5:00pm. Time to start dinner and then spend the evening editing the hard copy, reading a book, or if I get lucky, I may write some more. I hit the sack early, cuddle with the husband and then plot, plan and let my subconscious dance with my muse because tomorrow is another day closer to finishing this manuscript.
Hugs,
Reese
August Blog Topics
Because RWA (Romance Writers of America) held it's annual conference last month, we thought this would be a good time to discuss THE BUSINESS OF WRITING. Once you make the leap from writing for pleasure to writing for pay, there are many options to take a look at and decide if any will benefit you, the writer. From taxes to joining organizations, from whether an agent is needed to when to quit your day job, those questions encompass many things. We hope we can help you answer some of them or show you were to find more information.
The second half of August will be devoted to ORGANIZING TIPS & TRICKS. Pat will start us off, as she does each month, and there's no doubt she'll have some pearls of wisdom to share. Each writer has his or her own style of keeping track of research, making outlines, creating character and GMC charts, and tracking those submissions that can lead to the word we all long to hear: SALE! Share your experiences and thoughts. How do you do it? We'd love to know!
My Favorite Hero
Then something happened that made me realize where the real heroes in my life lay. So I decided to tell you about my cowboys.
They were four brothers who grew up on a 1,100 acre ranch near the small Kansas towns of Coldwater and Wilmore. Their friends and family called them “Pete,” “Fat,” “Al” and “Bob.” They learned early about the hard work of raising cattle to send to market, and pigs and chickens to eat at home. As an adult “Fat” didn’t like to eat anything that came off of a pig but bacon because they ate a lot of pork when he was growing up. And he only ate chicken at Sunday dinner.
But they also learned to love the land, and had a great fascination and respect for the animals that lived on it. Being kids, they found time and ways to play, using sticks to make corrals and colored rocks to make herds of cattle and horses. They swam in “cricks” and stock tanks where “Pete” put a frog down the back of “Fat’s” pants one time. Like Little Arliss in OLE YELLER, “Fat” had to empty his pockets at the front door of the ranch house because he was always bringing home baby skunks, little raccoons, bull frogs and garter snakes.
They grew up in the faith of their fathers, and when they reached young manhood “Pete,” “Fat,” and “Bob” showed their personal courage by answering the call to serve their country during the long, dark hours of World War II. They returned to the ranch and resumed their lives. “Pete,” “Fat,” and “Bob” married and had children, both by adoption and the more traditional method.
They kept in close contact with their parents, each other and the ranch. Family gatherings were large and boisterous, with food, fun and children being the main focus. Cousins stayed in each other’s homes and with Grandma, and learned to love each brother just as if he was their own dad.
The brothers were far from perfect. Some of them liked the liquor a little too well, and there were family stories of some fights that occurred at bars and dances. “Al” particularly had trouble, as he was hampered in life by mild Down’s syndrome. But for the most part, they kept their noses clean and were an asset to their family and community.
I came to realize as I thought about heroes that these four men had all the qualities that mattered to me. They embodied courage, humor, hard work and common sense. They respected women and adored children. And all of them were pretty good-looking, too.
I lost the last of my cowboys on July 17, 2009. But I know I will never lose the love that they showed me or the lessons that they taught me. They are and will always be my favorite heroes.
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