Showing posts with label Motivation. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Motivation. Show all posts

Begining Again. . . Again by Theresa Jaye



I owe a big fat apology to all my WARA friends for missing my blog posts the last few months.  I’m not going to make excuses. We all have our own hills and valleys to wade through. It’s impossible to bypass those roads that go nowhere and roads that are blocked. We waste too much time waiting for the roads that lead us to victory. I truly believe these challenges are what make us who we are.  

I’m not special or different. I’m not better or worse off than anyone else. I have hopes and dreams just like the next guy or gal. I control my own destiny tomorrow by the decisions I make today. If I choose not to write today, then tomorrow my goals will be set back even further. The only problem is that it’s easy to let those pesky excuses take over our lives and goals. We go out of our way to find reasons we can’t write right now. Time gets away from us—if we let it.

Like most of us, I’ve had this writing dream since I was a little girl. I’m still hopeful that I will be a published author someday. The one sure thing in this life is if I don’t write, it’ll never happen.  

I've set a major goal for myself and I've written more in the last week than any other week in 2014. Part of that goal was to blog again. I made that goal so who knows what I can do if I set my mind to it!

Hugs,
Theresa


It's Almost Time...

My mouth dropped open earlier today when I realized we're only four days away from the end of 2012.  The years just keep going by faster and faster.  One of these days I expect to blink, only to discover that I'm in a new year, with no memory of the one I just left.

WARA members are probably groaning as they read this.  They know I'll be pulling out the whip soon.  You see, with only four days left of this year, we're coming to the end of our word count challenge for the year.  And that means we'll be starting a new one.

Hear my evil laughter?  Oh, wait!  That means I have to buckle down, too.  Yikes.  Hear my big sigh?

Get ready...
How many WARA members---or non-WARA members---have given some thought to new goals for the new year?  How many have actually taken steps to get ready to work on those goals?  How many are chomping at the bit to get started on those goals?  (crickets chirping)

If you've participated in this year's Word Count Challenge, it's the best place to start for setting a new goal.  Did you reach your goal?  Did you come close, but didn't quite make it?  Did you find you didn't have nearly the time--or the drive--to stick with it?

Yeah, yeah, I know.  Lots of questions, but answers to them will help.  So will a few tools.


  • You'll need a calendar.  I like this one to start with.  It's printable and all of one year is on one page for a great overview.  It also has the option of the availability of more than the current, next and previous month.  And the holidays are listed on the bottom, so I don't have to look them up somewhere else.  Mark off any important dates, such as family birthdays, vacations, times you know you'll be otherwise occupied with life things.  Then transfer that information onto a calendar that gives you space to write on and where you can jot down word count.  (MS Word has calendars and calendar templates that you can print, if you want something plain or don't want to bother with buying a calendar.)  
  • Take a look at your 2012 goal (if you had one) and use it as the basis for planning your 2013 goal.  If it was a good year, do it again or maybe even add more words to your goal.  Maybe it was a bad year for you.  Maybe things happened that you didn't know about, but were big enough to put your goals aside, at least for a little while.  Ask yourself it it's possible those same things could happen again.  Or something similar.  If tax time is busy...  If summer leaves you with little time because of little ones...  You get the picture. :)
  • Keep Murphy's Law of Goals in mind.  Never heard of it?  It goes like this: When working on a goal, especially a year-long one, life will always intrude.  Don't fight it.  Don't let it beat you.  Deal with what needs your attention, then when you can get back to your goal, do so.  And don't beat yourself up, either.
  • Any forward motion, any progress is a +.  The saying, "You can't fix a blank page" has been attributed to Nora Roberts.  Whether she said it or someone else did, it's the truth.
  • Just write.  When you find it difficult to put words on paper, don't give up too quickly.  Sometimes getting started is slow going.  Very slow going.  But once started, no matter how slow and painful, it can and often does pick up speed.
  • Plan ahead.  It really does help to have some kind of idea of what you'll be writing.  This doesn't mean you have to have a book fully plotted or a synopsis written, but knowing your characters, their GMCs and what the story will be about is a huge help.  Ideas often come at strange times, so try to always have something handy where you can jot the ideas that come to mind.
  • Don't quit.  Of course there are times in life where you aren't given the choice of moving forward, but too often people give up when the going gets a little rough.  Lost time can be slowly made up over a longer period of time.  If it isn't, it's okay, as long as you don't give up without giving yourself another chance.
  • Take stock .  If you've fallen behind for any reason, rethink your goal.  There's nothing wrong with making an adjustment, no matter how small or large.  If you find you set your goal too low, smile.  Next time you can set it higher.
  • If you need some help with setting goals, check out Diary of a Mad Romance Writer.  Yeah, that's my blog, and I have more blog posts than what's probably needed on the subjects of both motivation and setting goals.  And I have LOTS of links for extra help.
I'm tired just thinking about it, but knowing  that working toward a goal is doable, I'm ready to start.  I know what I want to accomplish, I know how I can accomplish it, and I plan to start 2013 with determination and the will to finish.  I hope you all will do the same.  See you January 13!  And Happy New Year!!!
Cheers to a New Year and another chance for us to get it right. - Oprah Winfrey

Boost Your Motivation and Creativity


This is going to be a very short blog post and much of it a duplicate of my own blog for today.  I'm double blogging this because it's something we all struggle with at some time or another, and sometimes quite often.


I'm signed up on iVillage.com to receive emails about a variety of things, ranging from Exercise Tips to Decorating Tips and Dieting Tips to Relationship Tips.  It's a slide show of sorts each time and usually includes tips from professionals in the area of the topic.  Doctors, psychiatrists, trainers, decorators and others comment and offer the tips.

The topic of the link sent in the email today is 10 Ways to Boost Your Creativity, so it obviously it caught my eye immediately.  Here's a quick rundown on the 10 Ways, but be sure to click the link for more information on each one.


  1. Break Your Routine
  2. Do It
  3. Daydream
  4. Brainstorm
  5. Interact with People
  6. Schedule It
  7. Expand Your Experiences
  8. Reflect
  9. Relax
  10. Change Your Space
All 10 are things we've mentioned, but when it comes to motivation and creativity, it's never wrong to repeat the good stuff.  10 Ways to Boost Your Creativity

What motivates me to write ninety thousand words? (Melissa Robbins)


Competition:  My writing buddy Fran and I Irish danced together for several years.  If one of us won a medal, the other would strive harder to win one too.  That healthy competition continues with our writing.  We write completely different genres and styles so that’s not an issue, but if one does well in a contest, the other wants to do even better.  Right now, Fran is in the lead with a 2nd place Maggie win and three agents clamoring for that story.  Fire under my bum, let me tell you.  Also, with regards to competition, WARA members are participating in a word count contest for the year.  I threw in my goal of 90,000 words this year, and by golly, I'm going to reach that goal. 

Bookstore:  Monday night, my daughter and I spent an evening at the bookstore searching for chapter books within a specific Accelerated Reader level for her new reading goal with the school.  Looking at all the books lining the shelves made me want to run home and write my story or at least send out queries. 

A New Story:  Nothing inspires me more than starting a new story.  The ideas are fresh.  The characters are new and I’m dying to know what they want to share with me. 

Movies and Books:  I’ll watch a movie or read a book in my genre and can’t wait to get my fingers on the keyboard or pen to paper. 

Drawing:  This is a bit of the chicken and the egg scenario.  Sketching out my characters makes me want to write about them.  Writing about my characters makes me want to draw them.  The drawings help when the words or feelings are in my head, but I can’t get them out and onto the page. 

There are other things, usually random ones that motivate me, but these are my top five. 

Is Your Motivation to Write Lagging? (Penny Rader)


I've been having a bit of a motivation problem lately.  Being me, I set out to see what sorts of pearls of wisdom I could discover on the Internet.  Here a few snippets of what I found, along with a few quotes I hope you will find motivational:


“Do not wait to strike till the iron is hot; but make it hot by striking.”
 - William B. Sprague

5 Ways to Stay Motivated While Writing a Novel (Nathan Bransford)
  • Cultivate Your Fear of Failure
  • Set Deadlines with Teeth
  • Daydream a Little
  • Befriend Writers Who Have Finished a Novel
  • Write Something You Love
“If there’s a book you really want to read, but it hasn't been written yet, then you must write it.” – Toni Morrison

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7 Key Self-Motivation Strategies for Writers (Luc Reid)
  • Pick Your Project Very Carefully
  • Always Keep in Mind What Excites You
  • If You Stop Feeling Motivated, Retrace Your Steps
  • Use Support, Encouragement, and Deadlines
  • Don’t Spend All Your Time Reworking
  • Writer’s Block Is Just Fear of Writing Something That Isn’t Good Enough
  • Don’t Get Too Attached

“Write what you know. Write what you want to know more about. Write what you’re afraid to write about.”  -  Cec Murphy

10 Tricks to Motivate Yourself to Write–Right NOW (Ollin Morales)
  • Reward Yourself for Trying
  • Don’t Place a Goal on When You’ll Receive Your Worth
  • Be Flexible with Your Writing Schedule
  • Don’t Self-Punish
  • Don’t Overwork Yourself
  • Follow the Inspiration
  • Work through Emotions
  • Avoid a “Me vs. the World” Strategy for Motivation 
  • Instead Use a “Me Together With the World” Strategy for Motivation
  • Write

"I asked Ring Lardner the other day how he writes his short stories, and he said he wrote a few widely separated words or phrases on a piece of paper and then went back and filled in the spaces."  - Harold Ross

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24 Ways to Enhance Your Creativity (Keli Gwyn)
  • Take a break.
  • Vary your location.
  • Write longhand.
  • Make use of creative moment.
  • Get some exercise.
  • Take a nap.
  • Listen to music.
  • Feed your creativity.
  • Take a shower.
  • Soak in a tub of hot, Calgon-scented water.
  • Talk to another writer.
  • Socialize.
  • Reread your story.
  • Work on another project.
  • Change POVs.
  • Daydream.
  • Brainstorm.
  • Gag your internal editor.
  • Write fast.
  • Browse in a bookstore.
  • Seek solitude.
  • Read.
  • Watch a movie.
  • Develop a conducive environment.

“Being in the mood to write, like being in the mood to make love, is a luxury that isn't necessary in a long-term relationship. Just as the first caress can lead to a change of heart, the first sentence, however tentative and awkward, can lead to a desire to go just a little further.” -  Julia Cameron, The Right to Write: An Invitation and Initiation into the Writing Life

Creative Goal Setting for Writers (Kathy Steffen)

  • Mean It.
  • Make it Possible.
  • Let Go.
  • Make it Real.
  • Empower Yourself.
  • Be Specific.
  • Prioritize and Focus
  • Move It or Lose It.
  • To Tell or Not To Tell
  • Be Honest with Yourself
  • Change Your Approach
  • Celebrate Evolution
  • Don’t Give Up
  • Reward Yourself

"When asked, 'How do you write?'I invariably answer, 'one word at a time.'” - Stephen King

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Emergency Writing Motivation Techniques (Luc Reid)

  • Get a little exercise.
  • If something’s bothering you, fix your thoughts.
  • Visualize a result you like.
  • Just start typing.
  • Meditate.
  • Why did you decide to write this piece?
  • If you feel overwhelmed, focus on one thing.
  • Write it out.
  • Talk with someone who supports your writing.
  • Find inspiration.
  • Skip ahead.
  • Come up with something new.
  • Take a short time to organize.
  • Warm up.
  • Work on a different project if necessary.
  • Use external motivation.
  • If all else fails, do writing support work.

“I don’t wait for moods. You accomplish nothing if you do that. Your mind must know it has got to get down to work.” – Pearl S. Buck

Motivation and Inspiration for Struggling Writers

  • Keep a journal of all the triumphs and pitfalls you've experienced. 
  • Pretend your story is a movie. Who would star in it?
  • Edit what you've already written. 
  • Visit the setting of the novel or a place that reminds you of it. 
  • Make deadlines (and actually stick to them).
  • Reward yourself.
  • Work out of order.
  • Make a dust jacket.
  • Do something for your novel besides writing.
  • Talk to people.

“The worst thing you write is better than the best thing you didn’t write.” Unknown

Motivation to Write – How Writers Get and Stay Motivated (Laurie Pawlik-Kienlen)

  • See beyond the rejection slips.
  • Get your “bum glue” out.
  • Find motivation to write in your procrastination.
  • Don’t be a wannabe.
  • Write what you got.
  • Accept that good writing is hard work – it doesn't come easy for any writer.

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“You can sit there, tense and worried, freezing the creative energies, or you can start writing something. It doesn't matter what. In five or ten minutes, the imagination will heat, the tightness will fade, and a certain spirit and rhythm will take over.” – Leonard Bernstein 

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What works for you when you're having a bit of trouble in the motivation department?

Well, well, well.

Our topic this month is how, when and why we need to visit the creative well. 
Are you kidding me?  We have a well?  Of our own?  A place where we can quench our thirst for creative guidance.  An honest-to-God source to add a little wham to our words, spice to our sentences and perk to our paragraphs.  A magic place where we can make a wish, throw in a quarter and pull up a shiny new set of ideas that will all fall into place on our plotting boards.
Where do I sign up? 
But wait.  What’s that you say?  There isn’t a real well.  Seriously?  What do you mean the well is all around us?  That it’s incorporated into everything we do, movies we watch and books we read.  Are you trying to tell me that our creative brains are always clicking away, observing, learning, storing these tidbits of information for later use?   
But, only if we’re open to new ideas.  If we’re willing to put down our work in progress and read a good book or watch a movie with an open mind.  Take a walk and observe the people around us.  Listen to conversations and watch how people interact with others.  Talk to other writers.  Go to workshops and conferences.  Learn something new each and every day and then put these tidbits together to energize our words.     
Doesn't sound that hard.  Does it?  You just can't be afraid to drink from the well.   
Hugs,
Reese

Geography as Destiny?

I’m taking a left, sort of metaphysical, turn on this month’s topic.  Instead of considering where in the world I would go, I’ve decided to talk about where our characters come from as in their back-story.  This was prompted by a brief quote I had saved in 2010 and found--while looking for something else to use to spark off a blog this month..

“Anthropologists claim geography is destiny. Which means where we set our stories will shape our characters in fundamental ways. How do you decide which setting you need for your type of story?”  Does geography determine who and what or why our characters are the way they are?  (I found in doing some googling that in the real world there is a vast, multitudinous debate on all stands pro and con on geography as destiny.  I am not a proponent of any views, just an explorer!)

One book I discovered (which I neither recommend or contest because I have NOT read it) Power of Place by Harm de Blij, really got me thinking because of its Table of Contents--thanks to Amazon’s Look Inside.  Some of the chapter titles in Place-- “Imperial Legacy of Language; Fateful Geography of Religion, Rough Topography of Human Health, Geography of Jeopardy, Same Place-Divergent Destinies; Power and the City, Promise and Peril in the Provinces,” started me thinking about how I choose my characters’ backgrounds.  I am taking the topics far more literally than the author.)

In my Honour series, André Ribeymon, Baron de la Croix is a French émigré whose parents were killed by a mob in France during the Reign of Terror in the early 1790’s.  He was six at the time and was rescued and taken to England by his aunt. She weds an earl and they raise the boy and his sister.  The earl was a British agent and de la Croix admires and respects him.  André decides to follow his example and becomes a British spy working to overthrow Napoleon.

Then there is his counterpart, Donatien.  He is slightly older than André but was born and reared in France.  Born on the "other-side-of-the-blanket" and raised in a dissolute aristocratic household he comes to admire survival.  As an adolescent he was part of the “mob” and as an adult has become a master spy working for Napoleon, or perhaps more correctly, for his own advancement via Napoleon or whomever he can use.

These two men speak the same languages, their health is equally good, they both deal with jeopardy in many different forms, reside mainly in the city albeit one in London and the other in Paris and are familiar with the provinces of both countries.  They began their lives very much closer geographically than they realize.  Are their adult decisions merely Same Place-Divergent Destinies?  In the case of these two men I believe it was more a matter of who raised them than of geography although the political geography did have a huge influence and open possibilities neither would have had otherwise.  One grew up within  a sound family life with examples of moral living and the other had the exact opposite.  They both have chosen “good” but its definition is very different for each.  But I do need to add that Donatien, a totally amoral unflinching sort, really surprised me when I was writing Honour's Redemption in that he showed a glimmer of a heart.  It will be interesting to see how that develops, or does not, in book five.

Does it matter what setting our characters come from?  Does it make a difference in who they become?  It does to some extent just like where I was raised had an effect on me and the kinds of characters I create.  I don’t think its nature versus nurture but a combination of the two that mold a person.  My experiences and beliefs create different characters than yours would even if we were both given the same basic character.  Agree?  Disagree?  Why?

To Be (Inspired) or Not To Be (Inspired)



What's the most unusual thing in your writing space that inspires, entertains or humors you?




To be honest, Toby isn't all that inspiring.  He's more of a nuisance, especially when it comes to insisting on making my desk his favorite snoozing spot.  (That's a 22 inch monitor.)  Having his furry, gray, and tubby body covering the space needed for notes isn't all that entertaining, although I do get some exercise lifting him him down from the top of my desk to plop him back on the floor...about every five minutes.  Humorous?  Maybe.  In the beginning.  Until he decided my desk was his spot, not my working space.  Stretched out, he's nearly three feet from head to end of tail, and even though I've created a desk that is almost 9 feet long, to hold drawers, two desk lamps, a phone, dictionary & synonym book, a printer, several three-ring binders and other smaller items that keep finding their way to my desk, he's pushing his luck.  And he's not my cat!  He belongs to my youngest daughter.

So what do I have in my writing space that inspires, entertains, or humors me?
  • The poster board needed to create a vision board.  However, it's still blank after two or three months and still not on the wall.  
  • Four 6 1/2" X 8 1/2" plaques, two of chairs on the beach, two of seashells, that I bought because they're calming and inspiring.  They aren't on the wall yet, either.  
  • A collection of family photos, waiting to be mounted in frames.
  • 12 framed covers of my published books, also waiting to be hung on the wall.
  • Miscellaneous projects, all inspiring, entertaining or humorous, plus a lot of things that need to find new homes, preferably unseen. ;)
Before you all scoff, my space isn't as pitiful as one my think.  Instead of all the pretties and things listed above that really would be wonderful to look at daily, I do have three things that especially remind me that I should be writing and keep me on track when I am.

Two sets of plotting boards and another catch-all board that contains photos (of WARA members at conference and book signings, granddaughter, and high school memories), more notes and receipts. One board is for the current WIP, and the second is for a story I've been working on for more years than I want to remember.

Yes, another plotting board that awaits anothor WIP that's been put on hold while deadlines are met on current and next current (not yet on a board) WIP.

Confused?  Me, too!




Chelsea, my #3 daughter (there are 4) and a huge Tinkerbell fan, gave me the plaque last year for Christmas.  Since then, I've been looking for some of that pixie dust, because most days I could use a little to make writing and life go a little more smoothly.  Couldn't we all?  I haven't found it yet, but I'm working hard on those faith and trust things.  Maybe once I have them, the pixie dust will be magically supplied.  One can hope, right?


Whatever makes the day go easier, inspires us to work harder and reach higher, and brings a smile or a laugh, are the special things in life.  Enjoy!

Happy Easter and Passover, everyone!

Salute Your Inner Armadillo by Reese Mobley

The most unusual thing in my office has to be the stuffed armadillo. Not stuffed as in once alive and now not so much thanks to the local taxidermist. No, my armadillo is soft, gray and furry--much like my husband. It was a gift from my dearest friend, Pat. (the stuffed animal--not my dh)

We were in Dallas attending an RWA conference and we'd just listened to a speaker from Texas report on the massive weather condition that had destroyed her part of the country and the one thing that seemed to survive and even thrive were the armadillos. As a person who is easily moved to tears, I remember her speech was quite moving and motivating. The whole point was that if the critters could survive such devastation that as writers, we should try to be more like them.

Resilient, thick-skinned and strong enough to adapt to the ever-changing landscape.

Pat found the stuffed armadillo in the gift shop and rewarded it to me along with a note reminding me to always be strong. Like the armadillo. I look at that critter every day and know that even though I don't look like an armadillo, even if I squint really hard, I can have the same characteristics. I can be tough. I can be an armadillo.

Hugs,
Reese